Comments on: Creditors Have Better Memories Than Debtors

By: Four Pillars

Four Pillars — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 02:11:22 +0000

Wow, how much did you lend?

If I lent someone money and expected it back, I couldn’t possibly not say anything.

Mike

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By: Ron

Ron — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 03:45:45 +0000

#Natural→ You got that right. I borrowed money from a roommate when I was in college and it bothered me for a long long time. It was only $150 but I was unable to pay him back for 2 years. When I did, I sent him the money plus compounded interest and a sincere thank you note. But you know, things never were the same.

By: Natural

Natural — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 00:10:54 +0000

nope. i don’t lend money anymore and if i worry about getting something back then i probably shouldn’t have lent it.

lending money can destroy relationships.

By: Momma @ Tales From The Road Less Traveled

Momma @ Tales From The Road Less Traveled — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 14:39:22 +0000

I’ve most definitely been coerced, hijacked, guilted into lending money to people I knew wouldn’t pay it back. But that was back in the days before I realized that nobody had a right to expect my money to go to support their refusal to be financially responsible. I spent a lot of time carrying around anger and disenchantment with all of those situations.

Once I realized that the only person I’m accountable to for financial support is myself (meaning my household), it became far easier for me to determine where to lend or give my money and where not to send money down the drain. It’s not an easy lesson to learn.