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	<title>Comments on: The Secrets of Second Place</title>
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	<description>Wise Choices. Improved Finances. A Better Life.</description>
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		<title>By: Do You Dave Ramsey?</title>
		<link>http://www.thewisdomjournal.com/Blog/secrets-second-plac/comment-page-1/#comment-9741</link>
		<dc:creator>Do You Dave Ramsey?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2009 03:55:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Man, this is so true... some may think that offering to help the boss with &quot;extra&quot; work is butt kissing but I&#039;d offer those folks the chance to grow up and join us in the real world.

Many managers are squeezed on both ends... that&#039;s a greaty way of looking at it.  They may b eager to find friendly faces on both ends of their spectrum.

In my career so far I&#039;ve worked very closely with clients and I&#039;ve always tried to ask those questions.  How can I help you with something on the project that frees you up to handle something for your &#039;day job&#039;.  You&#039;d be amazed at how this builds that relationship - even if they don&#039;t take you up on the offer.

Rabbi Daniel Lappin suggests that we treat our employer as our customer...hmm, in that way, asking your boss if you can help is just like asking your client... hmm

And if you still have doubts... consider who the boss will select if layouts are mandated for yoru department.... the clock watcher or the one offering to help out.


Great stuff, thanks for sharing!
Dave</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Man, this is so true&#8230; some may think that offering to help the boss with &#8220;extra&#8221; work is butt kissing but I&#8217;d offer those folks the chance to grow up and join us in the real world.</p>
<p>Many managers are squeezed on both ends&#8230; that&#8217;s a greaty way of looking at it.  They may b eager to find friendly faces on both ends of their spectrum.</p>
<p>In my career so far I&#8217;ve worked very closely with clients and I&#8217;ve always tried to ask those questions.  How can I help you with something on the project that frees you up to handle something for your &#8216;day job&#8217;.  You&#8217;d be amazed at how this builds that relationship &#8211; even if they don&#8217;t take you up on the offer.</p>
<p>Rabbi Daniel Lappin suggests that we treat our employer as our customer&#8230;hmm, in that way, asking your boss if you can help is just like asking your client&#8230; hmm</p>
<p>And if you still have doubts&#8230; consider who the boss will select if layouts are mandated for yoru department&#8230;. the clock watcher or the one offering to help out.</p>
<p>Great stuff, thanks for sharing!<br />
Dave</p>
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		<title>By: Admin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2009 01:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve heard that line of reasoning before but have yet to find anyone who fell victim to it. An employee that makes the boss&#039;s life very easy is very valuable and should easily find promotion opportunities or other job opportunities. If someone finds themselves in this situation, they need to look for employment elsewhere.

Hedging your bets by holding back really won&#039;t help your job prospects long term.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve heard that line of reasoning before but have yet to find anyone who fell victim to it. An employee that makes the boss&#8217;s life very easy is very valuable and should easily find promotion opportunities or other job opportunities. If someone finds themselves in this situation, they need to look for employment elsewhere.</p>
<p>Hedging your bets by holding back really won&#8217;t help your job prospects long term.</p>
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		<title>By: Positively Present</title>
		<link>http://www.thewisdomjournal.com/Blog/secrets-second-plac/comment-page-1/#comment-9696</link>
		<dc:creator>Positively Present</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 15:04:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great advice here! Thanks! 

http://positivelypresent.typepad.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great advice here! Thanks! </p>
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		<title>By: Cody  Dream-Life-Coaching</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cody  Dream-Life-Coaching</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 10:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The problem with doing to good of a job in the #2 spot is that you might well make yourself to valuable to be promoted.  If you are making the bosses life very easy, well, why would he get rid of you by giving you a promotion?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The problem with doing to good of a job in the #2 spot is that you might well make yourself to valuable to be promoted.  If you are making the bosses life very easy, well, why would he get rid of you by giving you a promotion?</p>
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